EMBRACE THE DRAMA
This girl is one of my best friends ever, and even though we haven't talked that much lately she's important to me, in fact she was the first non-internet person I ever told I was gay to when I was 17 . In exchange she revealed also a big ugly secret to me but anyway, just so you get the picture.
So today a while ago she gave me the scoop that she suspected her boyfriend was cheating on her. And as the good and sexy friend I am I had to give her advise. I don't know whether I'm prepared or not for that.
I thought this drama near me was worth a post. This was the conversation:
HER: I most importantly wan't you to not tell anybody, ok?
ANYBODEEEEE
ME: alright
what is it
I'm in the edge of a collapse
this is the situation
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me
how do you know it?
for a while now he's been getting called on the phone and he doesn't answer it, cause he says it's a friend
that's so tiresome
I don't know, I suspect it
the other day I came up with checking his cell phone
and I saw that mainly on weekends when I'm not at his place, they had had conversations of 2-3 minutes
but the irrefutable is that I found he had sent a message to a different number and it said:
"I'd like to meet up with you, send me a picture"
and boy, this is twisting my head over
I don't know what he's playing
and what are you gonna do?
I don't know
what do you think about the message?
that it's crystal clear
I would forgive a one night cheat but not something like that
do you know how to hack a MSN account?
so I could check all the possibilities
no
(...)
boy I just don't understand
I'd break up and fly as little bird
but it's like he had double personality
the guy is all like I'm the woman of his life, that he doesn't know what he'd do without me, etc
and we even had thought about living together next year
and now this
he's actually the only guy I've been stable with, and I've had a vision more or less of future
but I don't understand, as soon as I turn around he's sending messages like that????
nasty. OK my advice, you can't tell him anything until you have some proofs, cause if not you can end up as the crazy woman of the town, so you have to hack that account already, so right now you ask Laidun how to do it, not telling her what for if you don't want to, you tell her she's your friend and she has to make you the favor and fast, cause you can't be normal with him knowing this, so I would do it right now
I know
that same thing I had thought
if it's true I would like to throw it up on his face
cause if there's someone with bad blood in this world that's me
so go, shoulders to the wheel, imagine there's pursuit music
but why this things happen to meee uuugghh *snif*
that happens to everybody some time so dry up that tear of dehydrated junkie and do something useful
look at him he's calling me
the big deal is that for once I was such a good girl
I had reformed and all for him
you lost your innocence, that happened to me when I masturbated with a
banana for the first time, you'll never be the same, but you'll be
smarter, bolder, sharper and you'll have emotional sequels that'll make
your future love of your life find you attractive
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